Hey! I’m Tamera. I’m the Relationship Expert that helps women that feel triggered by their parent(s) and want to have a healthier relationship.
As a child, I bounced from home to home and became queen of putting up a wall and not letting people in. After 20 years of emotional brick-laying and bridge-burning, I realized I was alone. I knew that I was the common denominator in all my relationships and if I didn’t figure out what to do I was going to end up divorced…again.
I picked up my first book on relationships and kick-started my life-passion by working in my marriage. Our marriage went from “let’s get a divorce” said almost daily to a complete 180 of getting to do life with my best friend.
I thought I had done a lot of healing from my past until we moved my mother in with us. I quickly realized that I still had triggers that brought up some feels and I reacted out of anger. Of course, that shortly followed guilt and became a nasty cycle. I was desperate to have a healthy relationship with my mom and turned to the same tools that vastly improved my marriage.
Throughout the years I have continued my education and fascination with people and relationships.
* I have 10+ years of relationship and behavioral change experience.
* A Bachelor of Behavioral Science.
* Behavioral Change Specialist certification.
* Certified Life Coach.
* Relationship Mentoring certification.
* Serving hundreds of clients over the years.
* I once lived in a 300 sqft RV with my husband and son for 3 years.
* We are a retired military family.
When I am not working, I am solving tv crime with my husband. I love hanging out with our friends (we play board games…shhh!). I have also been known to listen to podcasts all day long. My son could recite pretty much every intro from my favorites.
I know, first hand, how easy it is to feel overwhelmed with information while trying to heal. I promise to keep it super simple and lead you through a step-by-step process.